Identifying and admitting that a person was brought up in a dysfunctional family is the most punishing tasks. Acknowledging this fact is however crucial to outgrow such relationship issues and transform oneself into an emotionally stable and happy person.
Dysfunctional family is a disastrous unit where repeated malfunctioning is a rule. Its effects can be realized far later when they achieve an enormous form of destructive psychological effects on children. The sub-standard environment meted out to the child by such parents may (in some cases) be attributed to the unpleasant memories of their own childhood.

Characteristics of a Dysfunctional Family
Lack of trust and absence of security
Absence of the feeling of love and belonging
Lack of understanding between family members
Parents fail to nurture and support the children
Needs and desires of the child are always neglected
Verbal, physical, or sexual abuse may be a part of family
Family member(s) create an "unpredictably unhealthy environment"
Disputes develop on petty issues like money, love, work or almost anything
Negative dealing of stressful situations
Family values and rules are rigid and illogical
In rare cases, overprotecting the child may cause an adverse effect
Serious Impact on Child Psychology
Parents’ distorted attitudes can have a traumatic effect on the children. Such unnatural relationships gradually become the norms of the child’s life. While adapting to deficient parents, every child displays different manifestations. Some of the following traits may be visible singly or in combination in the affected child:
Feeling of loneliness
Being too hard on oneself
Finding it hard to relax and enjoy
Difficulty expressing feelings
Extremist responses and decisions
Problems forming intimate relationships
Adopting themselves to abusive relations
More concerned in helping others, apprehensive to seek approval
Taking over more than they can handle
Incompetent handling of anger, frustration and hatred
Children Conforming to Atypical Roles
Child having a sensitivity threshold that’s very low may exhibit disorders like study problems, drug or alcohol addiction, and other disturbances in the family. In some cases, the family dysfunction is attributed to the problem child even if he is not causing significant trouble (the truth maybe otherwise though difficult to prove). Some growing kids can use humor to rescue themselves and act as an entertainer in groups, while few love to stay in complete social isolation. Rarely some children play more than one of the above roles causing increasing pain and confusion.

Good Parenting - Spot the Tell-tale Signs
None of the parents wish to really hurt their children by choice, but they should 'intentionally' be more sensitive to child’s feelings. Family disputes are an inseparable part of life, but it should not be an accepted pattern. Each family member should also preserve his own space and not invade others’; and still be able to express freely, discuss and opine. Parents need to focus on the plight of the problem child who will manifest as either - the over-achiever or the silent sufferer. However, there is one thing in common that can be enforced to each of these personality types - a sincere attempt to understand them, the attitude of being more like a friend than being a parent or sibling.

Support their Needs and Help the Child Recover
Seeking support from parents, friends and other companions whom the child can trust helps a lot. Encourage them to express their feelings and most importantly keep them away from deficient members who are likely to hurt. Be patient, react optimistically despite your limitations. A break from daily chores, involvement in recreational activities and pursuing a favorite hobby can work wonders for the entire family.

One prominent accomplishment of a difficult childhood is that the child is fine-tuned to being adjustable that helps him pull through adversity. The best way to prevent dysfunctional relationship is to detect it at the earliest, find ways to cope with it through communicating, counseling and transform the conflict into productive life plan. Empowering yourself through this tough situation will transform you into an outstanding person and help live life to the fullest.